We know that life doesn’t always go as we planned it to. There are moments when everything starts to feel really heavy. This is during the times when we feel stress, loss or uncertainty, which makes it hard to breathe, doesn’t it? But here is the thing, you are stronger than you think. And, even on the days, where you feel like you cant do this anymore, thats when YOU CAN.
If you’re going through a difficult season, here are some ways to stay strong for your children while also taking care of yourself.
1. It’s Okay to Feel Everything
Ignoring your feelings is not a sign of strength. Feeling lost, frustrated, and crying are all acceptable. Being strong means choosing to persevere through difficult times rather than acting as though you have everything together.
Your kids don’t require an ideal mother. They require a real mother who demonstrates to them that feelings are normal and that it’s acceptable to deal with them in a healthy manner.
2. Lean on Your Support System
You are not alone in this. Look for those who can offer you support, listen to you without passing judgment, or just let you know you’re not alone.
- Talk to a close friend or family member.
- Join a support group.
- Pray, journal, or seek guidance from your faith.
- Asking for help is not a sign of weakness—it’s a sign of wisdom.
3. Create a Sense of Security for Your Children
Even in the hardest times, children look to you for stability. They need to know that, no matter what, they are loved, safe, and cared for.
- Stick to small routines—regular meal times, bedtime stories, or family check-ins.
- Be honest with them, but keep things age-appropriate.
- Reassure them that no matter what happens, you’re in this together.
You don’t have to have all the answers. Just being present and loving is enough.
You Are Not Alone—Find Strength in Living on a Prayer
If you need a story that will remind you of the power of a mother’s love and faith, Living on a Prayer by Hannah Hartman is a must-read. This powerful memoir tells the emotional journey of a mother fighting for her child through unimaginable challenges.
It will inspire you, comfort you, and remind you that no matter what you’re facing, you are not alone.
Get your copy today, and let faith be your strength!
